Thursday, February 21, 2013

grateful for extra beds

most nights i end up falling asleep on the couch.  usually it's because i'm watching tv, often times it's when i'm browsing through facebook, or reading a book, and sometimes it's even when i'm folding clothes.  yes, it's possible to multi-task in that way, didn't you know?  the kids tend to fall asleep next to me or in my arms, and that's when i ask brandon to move them to the bed.

it's not that i don't love cuddling with my babies, i do.  but believe it or not, i also enjoy a good night's rest.  this is often difficult to come by when you have little feet kicking you in the ribs, or arms slapping you in the face in the middle of the night.  so when i found a decent bunk bed on craigslist for a reasonable price, i jumped on it.  unfortunately, it took several more weeks for me to also find two reasonably priced twin beds on craigslist after that.  when finally found them, and got them set up on our new bunks...halleluyerrrr!!  i felt so liberated!  i thought to myself, i won't be waking up scrunched into a ball on the corner of the bed anymore!  woo-friggin-hoooo!


sadly, those thoughts of nocturnal limb-stretching on our king size didn't last long.  i can count on one hand, with extra fingers to spare, how many times these monkeys have slept on their own big kid bunks.  however, i'm still grateful for these extra beds.  because even though i can't stretch out on our official "family bed"...i know that i have a backup plan available.  and the other night i was pretty much forced to use that backup.  it was around 4 in the morning and the two monkeys had basically assumed control of the entire king size.  i was so groggy and tired, i felt no urge to scooch them around and carve out some space for me.  thankfully, the bunk beds are five feet away so i plopped myself down and promptly fell back asleep on nahe's tiny bottom bunk.

i'm thankful that i had a second option for sleeping comfortably.  and although i'm grateful that my babies may love me enough to give 'round the clock cuddles for their mama, a part of me would also be a little bit thankful to not have a foot in my face at night.  just a little bit.

don't let these smiles fool you - they only pretend to enjoy their own beds.

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